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  As a Christian it hurts me on how our own Nigerian version of Christianity is different from that of     the western people that brought Christ to us. Why does our own Christianity always    have to be about twisting what is in bible to our own favor. I was having a conversation with a said pastor about tattoos, and he kept telling me how God hates people with tattoos,    he even quoted a bible passage to back his claims up, he quoted     Leviticus 19 vs 28 which says    "You shall not make any cuttings in your flesh for the dead, nor tattoo any marks on you: I am the LORD." But unknown to him i know that particular passage of the bible so i took him back to the same Leviticus 19 vs 27 which says "You shall not shave around the sides of your head, nor shall you disfigure the edges of your beard." The pastor in question had a well shaved beard and a perfectly barbed Afro hair cut, and i was like how do you go about telling peo...

  The truth about life especially here in Africa is that nobody will respect you if you don't have money.   Nobody is interested in good legacy anymore, in fact you can’t leave a good legacy if you don’t have money. The physical god to human race    now is money, everybody wants it, everybody worships it, if you don't have it you're nobody. So People do anything to acquire it. For example, despite the fact that most of our politicians steal money like it’s nothing, yet People    hail them & defend their wickedness.  Our    youths go into scam and many other evil things because they want to prove that they're prime.  Some ladies are not even    helping matters, they come up with all sorts of rubbish to make you feel bad for not    doing what everybody else is doing. Even Some so called men of God are not left out, the rich get VIP treatment in churches because of their fat offerings and donations.  When a poor...

  The type of weird marriage proposal I've been seeing lately on the Internet is just annoying most times. I think you should first of all understand    the    person you are about to marry before popping the question. Some people naturally behave weirdly when there is a lot of people looking at them, so find out how your woman deal with plenty people watching her before proposing in public. I also think that a marriage proposal    should be from the heart, tell her why you want to spend your life with her, this should be after you've already found out    if you're proposing in a private or public place. Please try to avoid all those type of proposal that    you'll act like you are convulsing or you have stomach pain, some even go as far as arranging police to come arrest them    thereby putting the lady    in a confused state just because you want to propose to her. Finally if she says NO accept it with good fai...

Some how everybody low key hates  everybody  and think they are better and more special than every body in the world, I'm not sure if hate is the right word tho  but from my experiences it's definitely not love. We see this both in races, religion and also in our general beliefs. Why do we humans in try to distinguish ourselves at any point in time. The white man some how thinks he's better than different from the black man, the African American thinks they are better or superior to Africans living in Africa. Nigerians living in Africa thinks they are  better or more special than every other Country in Africa. And even here in Nigeria the average Igbo man thinks they are special and better than other tribes in Nigeria, same thing with other tribes, they'll think they are better and more special than each other. Coming down to the Igbo people, The Anambra man thinks he's better and more special than people from other states in the south east, same thing with people f...

 Unconditional love is everything. Love is beautiful when you really love for love,Not because you want free knacks or any other thing  that is knack related. This is when you  give Love and Kindness without asking for anything in return. I understand say body no be firewood, but that is but a little part of the whole concept of love. Love is way beyond what most of us think it actually is. Love is not a temporary feeling or just emotion. Emotions and feelings change, sometimes even daily. But unconditional love is everlasting. I used to see love as a give and get thing, but over the years both from my personal life experiences  and general knowledge I have come to realize that it's way bigger than that. One of the greatest obstacle to giving unconditional love is the fear of not getting it back, but we fail to realize that the felling lies on the giving not the receiving. Truly humans are just somehow and unpredictable, so if you really want to embark on this uncond...

 One thing I don't do is to judge people based on what I heard about them,I think you can do same too. People are quick to cancel you simply because they don't understand you, they won't even try to, rather they go about telling people you're this kind of person without actually knowing the kind of person you are. To avoid this, try to listen less to what you hear about people, always try to know them personally before you start judging. You might just hate or be enemies with a good person simply because you listened to the  wrong news  or made silly assumptions.