Try to understand people before judging them and free yourself from irrelevant hatred.

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 One thing I don't do is to judge people based on what I heard about them,I think you can do same too.

People are quick to cancel you simply because they don't understand you, they won't even try to, rather they go about telling people you're this kind of person without actually knowing the kind of person you are.

To avoid this, try to listen less to what you hear about people, always try to know them personally before you start judging.

You might just hate or be enemies with a good person simply because you listened to the  wrong news  or made silly assumptions.

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